ALL OR
NOTHING
An “all or
nothing” approach too often gets us nothing. The attitude of “I’m going to be
the best on the team or I won’t even play” is self defeating. Success is
achieved by degrees. Rarely is it possible to start at the top.
Certainly it
is commendable and very worthwhile to aim for the very best. You won’t get
there unless you go for it. But you won’t get there immediately either. In
order to reach first place, you must spend some time in fifth, fourth, third
and second places. Those who quit just because they came in third instead of
first, never make it to the top.
The same
principle applies whether you’re in a competitive undertaking or not. The
reality of any endeavor is that you very likely won’t get it perfect. But so
what? You’re achieving, you’re growing, you’re improving -- and those are what
count. Just because you can’t have it all, is no reason to settle for nothing.
A BIG
DIFFERENCE
Leaders are
ordinary people who have decided to use a slightly larger fraction of their
potential than is normally the case. Every success is just a discrete number of
incremental steps away from failure. The difference between grand achievement
and mediocrity is one of degrees.
The extra
effort you make in the next five minutes could ultimately mean the difference
between moving forward and falling back. It could transform what would have
been a loss into a profit. It could change what would have been a failure into
a success.
Achievements
are built. They do not simply appear. As such, each effort is layered on top of
the efforts which went before it. And as such, the value of each extra effort
is intensely magnified and leveraged.
The extra
efforts you make today have the power to significantly change your life, your
work, your business, your relationships, your world. Doing a little more does
not take a lot out of you, yet it can bring to you so very, very much. When
you’ve done what needs to be done, then give it a little extra effort. That
little bit will indeed make a big difference.
YOU HAVE
WHAT IT TAKES
You have
what it takes to live life at its best. You have what it takes to achieve
genuine and lasting excellence.
Your current
situation, whatever it may be, is a perfectly workable starting point. You have
what it takes to move positively forward in the direction of your own choosing.
Success and
fulfillment, excellence and achievement are not mere matters of luck. Rather,
they flow directly from your choices.
And you have
what it takes to choose the path that will take you to your most treasured
dreams. It is a path that is chosen not once, but over and over again in each
moment, each thought, each action and each decision.
You have
what it takes to be focused, disciplined, purposeful and effective. For you can
think and act, learn and adapt, work and build toward any goal you choose to
follow.
You have
what it takes to do the things that must be done to get you where you most want
to go. Choose to make use of your astounding abilities now, and again and again
as each day goes by.
IN CONTROL
Without a
knowledgeable pilot, the fastest, most powerful aircraft is of little use. To
get an aircraft safely to its destination requires skilled control. That’s
where the pilot comes in.
In the same
way, without discipline and control, even the most promising life is doomed to
go nowhere. You could have money, resources, knowledge, skills, and influential
friends, and yet if you fail to exercise control over your thoughts and
actions, all that great potential will go to waste.
The thing
is, it’s really not that difficult to control your life. You’re the person
inside your body, the person who pulls all the strings. You definitely have the
ability to think the thoughts you decide to think and to take the actions you
decide to take.
If you have
a compelling enough reason, you can exercise complete control over your own
thoughts and actions. So find a compelling reason! If there’s something you’ve
decided to achieve, spend the time and effort to understand, in a personally
meaningful way, why you’re doing it. Find a reason. Take control. And you’ll
find yourself flying straight toward where you want to be.
In Smiling |
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