Long Lasting Love

How To Find Long Lasting Love

Life as a single person offers many rewards, including learning how to build a healthy relationship with yourself. However, if you’re ready to share your life with someone and want to build a lasting, worthwhile relationship, life as a single person can also be very frustrating. And if you are ready to cross the line from being single, be sure that a healthy, loving relationship can enhance many aspects of your life, from your emotional and mental well-being to your physical health and overall happiness.

For many of us, though, finding someone we want to share our lives with can seem like an impossible task. But don’t despair, even if you have a history of relationships that don’t last, you can still learn how to find lasting love, and be sure that it all starts with you. You might be surprised to learn that most of the work of creating true love in your life is actually done before you ever meet “the one.”, so here we bring you eight things you must master before you can invite real love into your life.

1. You have to define what is it you are looking for?
If you’re trying to find love, what are you looking for? How do YOU find love? Understanding this will be the key to opening up better avenues and paths in your search for love. Try to pinpoint the type of partner that you’re looking for.
What are the most important aspects that you want in your partner? Knowing how to find love is about knowing what you want in a partner. Should your prospective partner be attractive, or charming, or earning a lot of money, or overly ambitious, or all of the above? Don’t sweat over the small stuff. It’s alright for the list to be vague.
Sometimes, it’s not easy to make a checklist in love, but it’s always better to create a list if you want to know how to find love. Love at first sight and passion won’t care about any lists, but checklists are always important in long term relationships. Once the passionate haze of initial love fades, reality comes into play and you’re going to wish you stuck to your list of wants in a partner.


2. Don’t focus on finding a partner. Focus on building a great relationship with yourself.
If you want anything in life to work out, you must have a trusting and loving relationship with yourself first. This is the primary focus in my life coaching work, because a positive self-image truly paves to road for any happiness, opportunity, and lasting joy in life.
Check in with yourself: how do you treat yourself? How do you speak to yourself? How do you hold yourself back and why?